I think dominant men who make me feel and respect them are awesome! More power to them…

Yall don’t know WHAT you want. That’s why you need a dominant man to let you know what you want!

I love the process of courting. asserting my dominance over a woman to gain entry to her Mind..
But to gain access to her Heart, I then stroke her bruises with soft hands and sensitivity.

John Byrd! You wish you were a dominant guy. Nailson! I like it A LOT!

i personally like a dominant man…the sweet ones i like but too easy to pushover and i cant respect that at the end of the day. i don’t want some super control freak telling me what i cant wear out in public or that they dont want me to wear make up and shit like that…but i do kinda like when a man tells me what to do….like bring yo ass home…instead of baby when will you be coming home!!

No Woman who knows what she wants, has time to sit around and train a man to do nuthin…either it is part of their DNA or not…and men don’t change unless they do it themselves.

agreed: CONFUSE THE ISH OUTTA ME!

why does Sarah sometimes sound a lil PRO-Ject-ISH lmao!!

yawl rock!

she does sound project chick!

Loved this topic! I absolutely need my man to be dominant. I don’t have any desire to be the man in the relationship, that’s his job. Know your role!

I loved that Wayne brought up the author that has the rape fantasy, I thought I was weird for having a similar fantasy, but now it all makes sense.

Hilarious as always!

I totally agree! I want a kind dude but definitely not a punk! This is a topic that plenty Men need to really listen 2! All Women love to feel protected. We want to be able to go anywhere with our man & feel safe. Not walking w/U & dudes are still trying to holla like U are not there! not a good look! Be aggressive when needed & w/o me having 2 tell U what i expect.

lol at ‘he rewarded her’ for taking a shower! =)

last but not least, I truly agree w/ Dude’s no Woman wants to act like she is your Mama!’

last but not least I fell out

I do like the dominant man not over protective or jealous though. First time listening and I really dig the radio show . Wonderful job everyone.

I COMPLETELY disagree with the ‘Good guys never win’ thing..

A good guy will ALWAYS win if they know how to turn their assertiveness on and off.

Theres a way to say everything, a man just needs to know when/how to do so.
I love a dominant man. I have to be dominant all day at work, and at the end of the day I don’t want to have to tell my man what to do and how to do it.

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I totally agree with wanting a dominant man! I want a guy who can take control at the right moments!

Great show!!

Great show topic…. “Good” Guys need to hear this!!! Definitely agree with women wanting a dominant man…He’s gotta be Confident in himself and know what he’s doing period!!

I think a guy can be a “good guy” and dominant at the same time. They are on 2 different continuums… it’s not one or the other. The problem is that many super dominant men are also selfish and narcissistic which makes it hard to show empathy or be considerate… the trick is to hit that right balance. Some men naturally have it, while others need to work on it! Be aware of what we want… and just DO IT!

I’m not a “good guy” but I AM a Good Man. There is a difference. A “good guy” is a sucka, but a Good Man moves to the beat of his own drum and knows how to lead his woman in all aspects of life. He keeps a balance between dominating when necessary and giving his woman space to make decisions for herself so that she maintains her Self in the relationship. I’m also a Nice Man, but I will flip when necessary. In fact, all men should flip on their woman every once in a while to keep her honest!

I swear to god I totally agree with Marcellus… You do gotta flip on folk every now and again… Make peopel feel your presence with tension so they know you’re capable of flashin on their ass. The thought process after that would be “I dont wanna mess with so and so cuz he/she aint wrapped too tight”. Im with it.

Domination Association!!! LOVE HURTS LMAO

A real man knows when to be dominant and submissive as well. Don’t be a door mat, put her on the floor and smash, talk trash and give whiplash!!!

Nice guys can win. And every woman deserves to be courted… and just because you do it, doesn’t mean that you necessarily get the prize. Men – you just need to pray for decernment and don’t spend more than you can afford to not get back. And if you do feel like she is the one, Go hard or go home! Period. Women just want to know that you are sure about this – then we will follow to the ends of the earth and and support you through valleys and celebrate at the peaks. We all want an adventure with a thoughtful man that is a confident leader, not a bossy bully.

WOW!! I feel you on not being attracted to the “Good Guy” I love a man that can be a leader but treats me as his equal… I so agree with everything that was said.

A huge part in me being annoyed with a guy is when we go somewhere in public and I love seeing how he can work a room, has a huge personality and uses hand gestures… I hate the clingy guy that wants to be up under me and is so annoying…

The best part is… Miss Sarah, “Confuse me” I love love it!!