What is an Untamed Vagina (UV)? It’s a Bad Boy’s best friend, and the Good Woman’s worst enemy. Why? Because the UV is not a challenge. The UV rarely considers consequences, but will act impulsively & irrationally. Sometimes it will yell, scream, and throw tantrums. Often times the UV will talk & tell you all sorts of lies. You’ve heard some of them. They may sound like this:
Yeah… he’s a bad boy, with no morals or intentions of settling down, but I can change him. (No you can’t)
You don’t need to wait. (But the red flags are waving!)
You really need/want something (whether money, trinkets, or just company), so use me.
If you give him ‘this’, he won’t cheat (even though he’s cheated on every woman in his past).
This man looks good & smells good, so he must BE good.
You don’t need protection.
I don’t mind sharing, as long as I get mine (BIG, BIG LIE).
It’s just a few moments of pleasure.
You deserve this.
You need this.
He loves you. (Your heart knows he doesn’t, he just loves the UV).
Yes ladies, the Untamed Vagina will lie to you.
The UV may sometimes cause a woman to blame the man in her life for her drama and issues, but it’s actually the Untamed Vagina that deceived her. And, sadly she fell for it. She knows he is not what she wants or even needs at this phase in her life… But the Untamed Vagina was oh so cunning, deceitful, and purr-suasive (smile). The UV will have the audacity to convince a woman that she can control a man. But the fact is, the only person she can truly control is herself.
Ladies, there may come a time when you too must silence your untamed vagina! The wisdom in your head & the understanding in your heart should determine what your vagina allows, not the other way around. The UV does not rule you. You rule it! You better tell it what & what not to do, or the wrong person will. And as you know, that can lead to sorts of trouble. (Spiritual, mental, emotional, physical, relational, financial, etc.). Also, for the record, most men don’t commit to, take care of, or cherish UV.
Women were not made for casual sex. No matter how hard they try, study after study (and your own friends) have confirmed that sexual relations will attach you to someone without the genuine permission of your heart. Why? Because sex is a spiritual connection, as well as a physical one. If a woman ever wonders why she is hanging around a man she doesn’t even like or respect, she should probably have a talk with her untamed vagina. Once the truth is discovered (and it may be ugly), put the UV on a serious punishment and a long time-out! Teach UV to say no. Train UV not to answer that booty call. (And no, these don’t just happen at night). Show UV that it will not die due to lack of attention. Let UV know that her functionality will not be lost just because she’s on hiatus.
Perhaps most importantly & most significantly, a woman must teach herself walk in Wisdom, Truth and Divine authenticity.
Dare I say that the Healthy/Happy Vagina should only be attentive and tamed by only two people. First & foremost, the woman herself & her personal values… It is a life-giver after all, and that fact alone deserves the utmost protection and care. And second, with the man who shares a loving, committed, righteous and loyal relationship with her. Shhhhh. Now, that’s just purr-fect.
Source: Engaging Epiphanies