Creating and Celebrating Milestones
Posted on 21. Oct, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
Why is turning 21, 30, 40, having graduations, awards, or any other life maker different from another day? What is the significance?
Good News and Bad News
Posted on 20. Aug, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
I’ve got GOOD NEWS and BAD NEWS. The GOOD NEWS is I think Daddy still loves you. The BAD NEWS is… HE LOVES CHELSEA TOO!
Cultivate Your Mystique, DON’T KILL IT!
Posted on 03. Aug, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
Recently I went on a date with a gentleman and anticipated having a great time. He looked good on paper. He was a Professor at a prestigious university. He knew several languages. He was well traveled. I had high hopes for our encounter. We met at a coffee shop, he purchased our drinks and then [...]
Diamond or Coal: The Choice is Yours!
Posted on 15. Jul, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
For those of you who have been with me on this journey from the beginning, you know that the Rotation Theory is not some sort of gimmick to trick people into loving you.
All Men Are Dogs! or Is That Just Your TYPE?
Posted on 05. Jul, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
We have a tendency to call men DOGS. Regardless of race or culture, when a woman drops that term in conversation with her sisters you can look around the circle and the faces all have that unifying expression of “Yes I feel you on that. I’m with you.”
Just Don’t Quit
Posted on 01. Jul, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
How many times on this road have we gotten frustrated or disappointed? Enough times to continue going through the motions, but be detached from the outcome. I realize that I have been doing this in my dating life.
That Mutha F*cka!
Posted on 22. Jun, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
Regardless of our race, creed, or religious background, as women, when our man wakes up one morning and proclaims, “Hmmm…I don’t think I want to be in this marriage (relationship) anymore.” Our first response is always the same,”That Mutha F*ucka
Sweatpants and Ponytails
Posted on 15. Jun, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
In my last post, What is the Dating Rotation Theory?, I laid out the foundation for this journey. It has been my experience that the most important aspect of getting back into the game has nothing to do with dating or finding dates, but has everything to do with reinventing who you truly are. So many [...]
How You Get ‘Em Is How They Go
Posted on 08. Jun, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
Hate, disappointment, anger, and fear are all very powerful emotions and at some points along this journey I have cycled through all of them and have found them to be useful like crutches when you first injure yourself.
Spring Cleaning: It’s Time to Purge!
Posted on 03. Jun, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
A few weeks ago I ran into an old boyfriend…and his wife. He turned and looked at me with a start…his eyes grew big like saucers. My heart started pounding…
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