Taking Ownership: I Like Myself The Way I Am
Posted on 07. Sep, 2010 by Brittney Winters in Lifestyle
I became soft-spoken and timid. I was scared of scaring him off. I was scared of being myself.
Cultivate Your Mystique, DON’T KILL IT!
Posted on 03. Aug, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
Recently I went on a date with a gentleman and anticipated having a great time. He looked good on paper. He was a Professor at a prestigious university. He knew several languages. He was well traveled. I had high hopes for our encounter. We met at a coffee shop, he purchased our drinks and then [...]
“For the Love of Ray J,” or “Flavor of Love” Without the Money
Posted on 29. Jun, 2010 by RachelEli in Entertainment
Flavor Flav was a clown, a crazed ringmaster, leading this 3-ring circus of sluts, booze, and bling. Ray J will never don a crown, yell cheesy catchphrases, or discuss eating a picnic off of a girl’s ass. For the Love of Ray J is Flavor of Love without the campy joy.
That Mutha F*cka!
Posted on 22. Jun, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
Regardless of our race, creed, or religious background, as women, when our man wakes up one morning and proclaims, “Hmmm…I don’t think I want to be in this marriage (relationship) anymore.” Our first response is always the same,”That Mutha F*ucka
Money Can’t Buy Me Love (But Blockbuster and Cookie Dough Might Work!)
Posted on 21. Jun, 2010 by RachelEli in Lifestyle
Before the recession, a major anniversary might have meant dinner out at Smith & Wollensky (or for Midwesterners, a trip to Olive Garden). A night at the opera has been replaced with a Blockbuster night. Steak, pasta, and chocolate mousse have been replaced with frozen pizza and a roll of cookie dough.
Sweatpants and Ponytails
Posted on 15. Jun, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
In my last post, What is the Dating Rotation Theory?, I laid out the foundation for this journey. It has been my experience that the most important aspect of getting back into the game has nothing to do with dating or finding dates, but has everything to do with reinventing who you truly are. So many [...]
Spring Cleaning: It’s Time to Purge!
Posted on 03. Jun, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
A few weeks ago I ran into an old boyfriend…and his wife. He turned and looked at me with a start…his eyes grew big like saucers. My heart started pounding…
The Dating Rotation Theory
Posted on 28. May, 2010 by KaliMa in Lifestyle
THE DATING ROTATION is a tool to help us become a more full expression of ourselves and also, to date a VARIETY of potential mates, as opposed to the same guy, different body we have done in the past.
Wanted: One (Possibly Fake) Long-Distance Boyfriend
Posted on 12. Apr, 2010 by Brittney Winters in Lifestyle
Wanted: One attractive, intelligent, available male to either pose as or be my long-distance boyfriend.
The State of Relationships
Posted on 19. Nov, 2009 by AnjaloRussell in Lifestyle
A few days ago, I received an email requesting to post this “Letter to Women” on SicklyCat.com. The writer would like to remain anonymous, but I would love to hear what you think about it. Enjoy!

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